Is your Marriage Sex-Starved?

In the light of the Haydengate scandal, I can’t help but be amazed about how the idea of sex, private or public piques our national interest. But since we’re on the topic already, let’s talk about married sex instead.

If there’s anything we married couples or you soon-to-be-hitched people can learn from those videos, it’s this: VARIETY! Unfortunately Mr. Kho even in his perverse vanity to film and flaunt his so-called skills (or basically the lack thereof) failed to impress us. Shame on him and double shame on those who thought it was hot. It was not – for several reasons! One – it being a grave violation of those girls’ rights to privacy and two – HK was a perfect example of a lousy lover. So husbands please do not copy such mediocre bedroom antics! Your wives deserve much better, and yes that includes most importantly her being on top.

Contrary to popular belief, married sex should not become boring. In fact, the kink meter should be rising and not the other way around. Married sex should grow more secure allowing spouses to be more comfortable with each other, which then gives more room for creativity. Unfortunately, a lot of couples are enduring sex-starved marriages nowadays. There are a lot of factors to this… new babies… growing kids… a small house… in-laws at home… and even the increasing trend of couples having unmatched time zones courtesy of their call center jobs.

Do you think you are in a sex-starved marriage? Ask yourself some QUESTIONS.

Spouses you are obliged to regular dates in the sack with your partner. The Bible commands that:

"The husband should give to his wife her conjugal rights and likewise the wife to her husband. For the wife does not rule over her own body, but the husband does; likewise the husband does not rule over his own body, but the wife does. Do not refuse one another [except perhaps by agreement for a season, that you may devote yourselves to prayer; but then come together again, lest Satan tempt you through lack of self-control." -- 1 Cor 7:3-5

So what are you waiting for? Grab your sweetie (and by that I mean your spouse) and spring to the bedroom now. And oh, no Careless Whispers please!